Gerald Carlson

Gerald Carlson

May 23, 1929 - June 07, 2020

Obituary

Gerald Carlson, 91, Jamestown, ND died Sunday, June 7, 2020 at his home in Jamestown, ND.

Gerald Wilbert Carlson (Jerry) entered this world on May 23, 1929 in a Doctor’s office in what is now the upstairs of Jerry’s Furniture in Jamestown, ND.  He was born to Joseph and Lydia (Gaier) Carlson. After struggling with heart disease and diabetes for many years, he left us  peacefully on June 7th, 2020 in that same location.

Jerry is well known in the community for being the patriarch of the Carlson family, striving to maintain the traditions of his generation and preserving family bonds. His businesses, highlighted by Jerry’s Furniture, were all family businesses that anchored his passion for family and social relations with the greater community. He sold furniture but people would come from miles around to have conversations and share in his hospitality. He was a maven and icon for Jamestown business as he was active in many organizations throughout his lifetime which ranged from supporting the mission of St. Johns Academy/St. James Parish to his role on the Hockey board and Figure skating Clubs (former President) where he assisted in helping build the first indoor winter sport facility in the town (John L. Wilson Arena). 

He started farming at 16, and moved alone to Jamestown from the farm North of Cleveland, ND, to finish high school and then briefly attended Jamestown College hoping to pursue dentistry. At 18 he started drilling water wells (Carlson Drilling) with his cousin Wilmar Weber.  Jerry’s brother-in-law, John Ganser (Big John) was the main well driller and the drilling business continued until John’s retirement. In 1950 he joined the U.S. Navy as a Seaman. He was stationed in the Great Lakes where he boxed and learned several trades including cooking and electrical skills.  After the Navy, he spent a winter in Glendive, Montana working on oil rigs (hauled dyno-mite), and another winter picking oranges in Florida. In 1958 he started J&J Sales with his uncle Jim Gaier; two years later his father Joe bought out Jim. Jerry was a true salesman. He sold waterless cookware door to door, Kirby vacuums, cars, mobile homes, snowmobiles (and had an AMF racing team) and furniture. Bernie Wojick and Bob Ganser were some of his key employees in many of these endeavors. Later J&J became J&A (Jerry and Annette) Distribution and Jerry’s Furniture.

Jerry married his beautiful young bride, Annette Ganser on September 22, 1956 in Medina, ND who he met while roller-skating. .  They had 6 children, all starting with the letter “J”.  The initial plan was to have 6 more with names starting with “A”.  They quit at six. 

Although definitely not retiring, they moved to town and resided above Jerry’s Furniture in the old White Drug building.  They continued to garden in the alley.  While he had grown over 100 tomato plants in the country to share with friends, he scaled back to two and some rose bushes.  He especially loved dark red hybrid tea roses. In 2017 he received a beautification award from the downtowners.  They celebrated their 60th Wedding Anniversary in 2017 with friends and relatives with a dinner and dancing to the Julie Lee band hosted by their children

Dad said cats have nine lives, he thinks he’s had 20.  He remembers one year he had more than 40 speeding tickets…no, he said, maybe more.   He enjoyed hunting all kinds of animals but was a bit colorblind when hunting pheasants.  He liked fishing local lakes when they were biting, and even caught and had stuffed a sailfish when in Mexico.  Jerry and Annette enjoyed traveling with the Artcraft mobile home group and visiting relatives.  Black Jack was his favorite card game although he enjoyed playing all kinds of cards, starting with poker at age 4.  Games of pinochle were mainstays at family events as Jerry enjoyed teaching people the art of being a good partner, and quickly expected you to play well if you were on his team. He also enjoyed delivering beds to businesses and stopping at casinos along the way.  They liked to meet Al and Barb Huseth at Treasure Island.

Jerry is survived by his children Julie (Lindsay) Orr, Ypsilanti; Judy (Lyle Wergeland) Carlson, Bismarck; Gerald Jr. “Bud” (Darlene),  Jamestown; Jeffrey (Nancy Bader), Jamestown); Jacqueline (Michael) Akin , Minnetonka, MN; and James (Caroline Fischer),  San Diego, CA. Grandchildren: Thomas (Matty) Orr, Aberdeen; Jessica (Matt) Johnson, Bismarck;  Zoe (Peter) Wergeland Manstrom, Bismarck; Nicole  (Dustin)Martin, Warrenton, OR; Samantha Akin and Ashley Akin,  Minnetonka, MN; and great grandchildren; Lyndon, Jocelyn, Ellen, Juliette and Brekken Orr; Charlie and Jack Johnson; Nevada and Phoenix Martin.  Sister-in-laws, Lora Ganser, Carol  Ganser, Diane Balster, Barbara (Allen) Huseth, Mary (Dale) Zillmer, and Betty (Vince) Ament.

He was preceded in death by his wife Annette; his parents Joseph and Lydia; brother Robert and sister Joyce Elaine Carlson.  Brother-in-laws Francis Ganser, John Ganser, Robert Ganser; Sister-in-laws Mary Lou Carlson, Elizabeth Ganser and Judy Ganser.

Jerry was quite a character.  There are so many great Jerry stories.  Please visit Haut Funeral to share your memories and reminisce. Cremation has taken place and due to Covid19 restrictions, a memorial will be held on Monday June 15th at the Catholic Church; with a social reception at the funeral home Celebration of Life Center, following the burial, to allow for people to share stories and memories of Jerry. Best practices, masks, and social distancing are requested as the family hopes many can join them in celebrating his life. 

Burial- St. Pauline's Cemetery, Windsor, ND

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Pam Williams
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I am sending sincere condolences to all of you kids and your families. Maybe I shouldn't refer to you as kids...its funny how time flies and then some times it doesn't. Your Dad and your Mother did a beautiful job of making a happy and loving family. I am so sorry for your loss but he will always be with you in your hearts.
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Andrea Floyd
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Jon Zillmer
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We are so sorry for your loss. Jerry always seemed ageless somehow, young at heart and with a love of life and people. I know he's making people smile now in heaven and i can hear Aunt Annette's laughter. How good for them to be together again. My favorite memories go back to the very early 70s, J and J era, just impressed with all the enterprise, which I'm sure he was proud of but what struck me then was his casual comfort to generously share, to allow us kids to play and explore the furniture store and more. Over the years it was always so good to see him...and he had such a way of letting you know he was just as happy to see you.
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Doreen and Ken Gordon
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So very sorry for your loss. We have a ton of great memories with You all. Hugs and prayers.
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Nicole Borg
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So sorry to hear of Jerry's passing. I have such fond memories of Jerry from all the Carlson Picnics and from running into him around Jamestown. Jerry always made me feel welcome, and always had time to share a story and a laugh. I felt fortunate to see him at the Arts Park concerts last summer and at the Chinese restaurant. When we invited him to our table, my husband asked him what the secret to a long life was. Jerry looked thoughtful and said, "Don't die." That was Jerry! He was one of the good ones. Sending our love from Minnesota.
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Clarice and Reuben Liechty
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What an amazing man Jerry was. Someone who led an interesting life. One who during his long life used his talents to help others. Little did I know he was much more than the furniture man. Thank you for writing this loving obituary so we can know more about him and his work. He cared for the community. A great business man. You are blessed to have him as the patriarch of your family. Your memory of him will continue to hold your family together. Share your happy and wonderful memories of him. Rejoice in his life.

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