Ardella Buchholz

Ardella Buchholz

June 12, 1939 - July 25, 2026

Obituary

Ardella Buchholz, 87, of Fargo, and previously of Fredonia, died peacefully Saturday, July 25, 2026, at Sanford Medical Center in Fargo, surrounded by her husband and children. The service will be held Friday, July 31, 2026, at the Fredonia Martin Luther Lutheran Church. Visitation will be held at 10 AM with the service to follow at 11 AM and burial in the Martin Luther Cemetery at 12 noon.

Ardella was born June 12, 1939, in a farm west of Wishek, North Dakota, the third of eight children born to Calvin and Frieda (Rueb) Meidinger.

Ardella married Rodney Buchholz, November 27, 1960, in Wishek. Ardella attended school in McIntosh County where she obtained her GED. They moved to Fredonia in 1961. While living in Fredonia, everyone complimented her on her big garden of vegetables and flowers.

Ardella shared her time and talent with many serving on the Executive Jubilee Committee as treasurer, custodian at Martin Luther Lutheran Church for 30 years, member of the ALCW, City of Fredonia Assessor, Sunday School superintendent and server and cook at the Fredonia Cafe. Her hobbies included spending time with family, camping, fishing, collecting coins, gardening and canning. Her family and friends say she was one of the greatest cooks and her popular requests were famously known as her chicken and strudel and cheese buttons.

Ardella and Rodney spent many happy hours together on the dance floor, especially enjoying waltzes, two-steps, and polkas. In later years, while living at Eventide in Fargo, they could often be found watching The Lawrence Welk Show or Mollie B Polka Party together on television, reliving their love of music and dancing. Ardella also treasured time spent in their camper and never passed up an opportunity for a camping or fishing trip. Ardella and Rodney shared a love of horses and enjoyed attending horse races whenever they could. They especially treasured the opportunity to co-own several racehorses with Rick and Jodi and took great pride in watching them compete. A highlight of those years was a memorable trip to the Kentucky Derby, an experience they always cherished.

Four years ago, Ardella and Rodney moved to Eventide Assisted Living in Fargo, where they cherished being closer to all three of their children. While the transition from their small hometown was an adjustment, they embraced their new community and made many new friends.  Even as physical limitations made some activities more challenging, her determination never wavered. She eagerly signed herself and Rodney up for outings on the Eventide van, whether it was a trip to the Hankinson casino, lunch, or trip to Walmart.

She is survived by her husband, Rodney, and three children, Rick (Jodi) Buchholz, Cindy (Chris) Breyer, and Teresa Buchholz; three grandchildren, Gunnar (Dani) Breyer, Dawson (fiancé Zoe) Breyer, and Sterling Buchholz; three sisters, Joyce Finck, Janice Willis and Carol Kessler; sisters-in law, Marlene Buchholz, Betty Hjelmhaug, Violet Buchholz, Shirley Buchholz, and Prudi Buchholz.

in 1995, a piece of her heart broke when her 19-year-old son, Kurt Buchholz, passed away from cancer. She was also preceded in death by her parents; sisters, Mavis Waelhof, Arlia Wiest and Judy Wilson; brother, Jerome Meidinger; sister-in-law, Arlene Buchholz and Linda Klettke; brothers-in law, Julius Waelhof, Herbert Wiest, Jay Willis, Darold Finck, Gene Kessler, Gene Wilson, Leo Buchholz, Ralph Buchholz, Laurence Buchholz, Jerry Buchholz, Darrel Buchholz, and Kenny Klettke.

May she rest in peace!

Events

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Visitation
Fri Jul 31, 2026 @ 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM CDT
Martin Luther Lutheran Church, Fredonia, ND.
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Funeral Service
Fri Jul 31, 2026 @ 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM CDT
Martin Luther Lutheran Church, Fredonia, ND.
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Interment
Fri Jul 31, 2026 @ 12:00 PM - 12:30 PM CDT
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Izzy
Friend •
I have worked with Ardella for the last few years. I looked forward to our weekly visits, and enjoyed getting to spend time with her! I love looking through these photos and getting a glimpse into the life she told me so much about. She was a very special person, and I will miss her so much. I am so grateful for the time I got to spend with her. She loved telling me about the trips she’d take in the camper, food she’d share, and time she’d spend with family. Rodney and family are in my thoughts while you grieve this wonderful lady!
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LeAnn Pick
Family •
I remember her gardening she gave me the idea when I got older to have beautiful flowers around my house and vegetable gardens as well. I’m proud of her for instilling that into me. I’m always happy that she has inspired me. She was fun to be around and I really enjoyed her laugh it was contagious. Her and Rodney were a wonderful couple to be around they showed what real love was all about. That moved onto her children and grandchildren. She gave them that as a gift from God. She was my aunt as my father was Leo Buchholz who passed a few years ago. I will forever miss her, but we will meet again soon in heaven.
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Beckie and Gary Bertsch
Friend •
Love all of the pictures! Ardella and Rodney are very special to Gary and I. They were the “back door” neighbors as Gary cut his teeth on his ministry.Between her and Rodneys dedication to Martin Luther they kept things in tip top shape! We love calling them on Christmas Eve. Of course we will never forget Ardella great German food. She will be missed by all who knew her. She will always hold a special place in our hearts. Love to the entire Buchholz family. May Gods peace sustain you during this time of mourning.
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Vickey Deibert
Family •
Aunt Ardella was a second Mom to me especially after my Mom passed away. Each year, no matter what, we would send birthday cards to each other as my Mom and her did that and when my Mom passed away, I took over the birthday card to Ardella, sure gonna miss that! Many memories with the Buchholz family, camping, fishing, my Dad playing organ or accordion and dancing in our little living room. So many memories, I could go on and on but, I will hold them close to my heart and will miss you dearly, Aunt Ardella.
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Kimberly Werlinger
Family •
Aunt Ardella always made me feel welcome at their home. Her cheese buttons were very much anticipated at family reunions. Her family meant everything to her. Rest in peace Aunt Ardella ❤️

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