Shirley Nitschke

Shirley Nitschke

June 29, 1936 - March 15, 2023

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Shirley Mae (Wegner) Nitschke, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister and friend, passed away peacefully on March 15, 2023 in Fargo, North Dakota, at Eventide Care Center.

Born on June 29th, 1936 to Ted and Martha (Elhard) Wegner of Alfred, North Dakota, Shirley attended a farm school for one year and then completed her elementary years at the Alfred School. Shirley attended Gackle High School for two years and graduated from Jamestown High School in 1954.

Shirley married Larry Nitschke on June 12th, 1955, at the Congregational Church in Alfred. Shirley and Larry moved to Washington State for a few months before returning to North Dakota and settling in Jamestown to raise their family. They enjoyed 56 years of marriage until his passing in 2011.

Shirley taught at a country school north of Alfred. She also was employed in Jamestown with Moline Café, North Central Consultants, Architects and Engineers, and Merrick and Schaar Law Firm.

Shirley was a member of First Baptist Church, Jamestown, and a member of the Alfred American Legion Auxiliary, Leno-Schlenker Post #295. 

Shirley was the published author of two books, Heimat and Heimat II. She loved to play the piano, sing and read, but above all, she loved to spend time with her family, especially at their second home in Alfred, North Dakota. Shirley was a fantastic baker and cook of German Russian cuisine. She enjoyed traveling with Larry across the United States and Europe.

Shirley is survived by her three children, Lynne (Brad) Newark, Crete, Greece; Lance (Shiela) Nitschke, West Fargo, North Dakota;  Landon (Staci) Nitschke, Lucas, Texas; foster son, Lee (Rhonda) Dahl, Fargo, North Dakota; grandchildren, Luke, Lee, Logan, Lawson; sisters, Carolann (John) Carroll, Fargo, North Dakota; Madelyn Williams, Jamestown, North Dakota;  and sisters-in-law, Janell Wegner, DeVaris Wegner, Darlene Wegner.

Shirley was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Larry; daughter, Janie; brothers, Roger, Roland, and Gordon; sister, Judy.

In lieu of flowers the family requests memorials to Hospice Red River Valley

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Sherry (Miller) Syverson
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My condolences to Shirleys family. We worked together at the law firm for a fee years. Shirley was an inspiration to many and will be missed.
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Patricia Lahr
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Good morning to Larry and Shirley’s family! You said it best! She is now with her Larry! You captured Shirley perfectly in her obituary! I love the photo you chose! I have both of her books, a beautiful treasure! And I have great memories too! She was my piano teacher! My heart aches, such sad times when we lose our loved one!💔 Treasure your awesome memories! Sending prayers, my sympathy and loves, Condolences and hugs,🥰 Pat Lahr
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Rory and Sheila Metz
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The Rory Metz family will always hold memories of Larry and Shirley in our hearts. We enjoyed hearing their stories and working with them on various "Alfred" projects! The last time we visited was just before Covid - but Shirley remembered us and details of the pictures we shared with her. Shirley was a very gifted person and all of us have been blessed by her life.
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Kirstin Navaroli and Family
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Cynthia Schaar and Barry Bentz
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We are so sad to hear of Shirley's passing. We loved her very much. She was a wonderful support at work and a kind and thoughtful friend. At least she is now with "my Larry". She loved you all very much
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